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UPDATE: 12-year-old boy found safe in Little Rock


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Nickolai Whelpley was last seen wearing a navy polo style shirt, khaki shorts, white socks and hiking boots.
Nickolai Whelpley was last seen wearing a navy polo style shirt, khaki shorts, white socks and hiking boots.
Reported by: David Goins
Updated: 5/12/2010 6:37 pm Published: 5/11/2010 2:20 pm
A Little Rock boy missing since Monday is now home safe.  Nikolai Whelpley was found a few hours ago near his west Little Rock home.  But FOX16 News is examining more on why a child like Nikolai, adopted from Russia, may have decided to disappear.

Each parked car marked another volunteer looking for Whelpley in his west Little Rock neighborhood Wednesday morning and afternoon.

"There is a team working their way down here and I need them to go this way next."

Some volunteers drove the neighborhood, other teams combing the woods near Nikolai's home on foot.  Friends of the family say he'd runaway before.  Why?  His mother tells FOX16 News Nikolai has reactive attachment disorder.

The condition develops in children who suffer neglect, abuse or separation from caregivers early in life.  Nikolai was adopted at age 6 from Russia.

Dr. Lynn Taylor is the director of child and adolescent development at the University of Arkansas at Little Rock and chief of psychiatry at Arkansas Children's Hospital.

Taylor says instances of the disorder are seen more in kids adopted from Eastern European orphanages.

"This child may have wandered off because the child lacks that attachment that would hold him close to his family," Taylor says.
 
Last month, a mom in Tennessee put her 7-year old adopted son alone on a plane back to Moscow after she says he became uncontrollably violent.

The search for Nikolai ended happily.  But Taylor says the difficulties of reactive attachment disorder in kids coming to the United States remains.

"I welcome the publicity that this is getting so people will be more aware of it and know that when they're adopting a child who may have had really pathological or abusive early experiences, neglect, that child may not respond in typical ways," Taylor says.

And that can include running away and hiding for a day or two at a time.  Little Rock police did assist in the search for Nikolai, using a canine searching around the home this morning, but couldn't find him.

Russia placed a moratorium on adoptions to the U.S. after the Tennessee incident.  But U.S and Russian officials began talks Wednesday to resume adoptions with hopes to reach an agreement by the end of this week.

Taylor added that reactive attachment disorder is not exclusive to children coming from overseas adoptions.  It can manifest itself in any environment where children aged six months to three years fail to form normal attachments to primary caregivers.
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njastrzebski - 5/24/2010 5:40 PM
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Seriously??!?! You are mental RADAD! You are upset about your son...which is understandable but to keep talking about it on this story makes no sense at all! I guess you need to let your stress out somewhere huh? I was a single mom for 6 years and my son has ADD so don't tell me about your hardships when I have my own. Deal with it!

RADAD - 5/19/2010 1:59 AM
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njastrzebski: I agree that ALL aspects need to be looked into, in my situation they have been, for three long, grueling years they have been. My son has been inpatient three times since being with me, due to a fear of his hurting himself or others. I am a single dad, without a job, who goes to school full time. RAD is a very stressful illness, not only for the child, but the parent('s) as well. RAD is extremely rare, and very serious. I hope there is alot of people that go to the website link and read about the cause and effect of RAD. Knowledge is power even if power is not being sought, only understanding. Saying "it is completely "ignorant" of me to assume it is some sort of disease the child has" is completely ignorant of you. You obviously have not read about the "illness," not a disease it is not contagious. It is an illness which develops between the age of six mos. to three years. However it can remain undetected until early adolescence. Before you comment again, read about the issue you are commenting on, it may make you sound less ignorant. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER !

njastrzebski - 5/13/2010 4:52 PM
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Chill out RADAD...NO ONE was blaming the parents! Simply stating that something is wrong when a child runs away all the time! And you need to look in each corner to figure it out! If that's the way everyone handled problems with children (to never look at the parents) how would we ever figure out if he was being hurt in some way? That is completely ignorant of you to assume it's some sort of disease the child has (that is rare!) without looking at ALL options first! And if you where not assuming that why bring it up on this topic?

rightontarget - 5/13/2010 4:09 PM
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Thank you RADAD for your comments. I have worked with children for over 10 years now and I am very interested in knowing more about this illness. I will for sure be looking into your link and learning all I can because you never know when you might have to deal with this issue and it is good to know I can have some facts.

RADAD - 5/12/2010 9:51 PM
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Reactive Attachment Disorder is an extremely RARE and very serious mental illness. I have recently began researching the illness when my own son was handed the same diagnosis earlier this year. It is hard to believe a child can have such a disorder at such an early age as 12, but my son has it and is only 9. RAD develops in children between the ages of 6 mos. and three years old. My son has had all the inclusions in which the illness is derived. He was abused, neglected, passed from caregiver to caregiver, had no emotional connection to his mother, she was his "safe" zone in his mind. All the while it was his mother who was doing the harm to him, and being uncaring. It took three very long exasperating years to gain full custody of my son and he has been receiving counseling ever since. He still has difficulties in the public setting, especially at school. For the viewer who made the statement concerning that "there is a reason," you're right. The reason is called Reactive Attachment Disorder. I will post a link on FOX-16 to let those interested see and read of this devastating illness. It not only affects the child, it affects the entire family, a family that struggles every day to make the right choices for the benefit of my son. The Link which I found to contain the most informative information is: myoutofcontrolteen,com/mr-RAD.html . once you have read on the illness you may have a better understanding of the difficulties associated with it, and the tremendous strain it put's on the entire family. Bill - Bauxite, Ar

RADAD - 5/12/2010 9:34 PM
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I was just watching your 9 O' Clock news show when you ran the story of the boy diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder who had ran away from home. My son has also been diagnosed with this same disorder, and it is of no fault of my own. This disorder is extremely rare and very serious. It generally begins in early childhood between the ages of 6 mos. and three years. It is unreal that people still make comments and point fingers without knowing the facts. Those people should be ashamed of themselves. It is not the Parent, nor the child's fault, it is simply a disorder that with the proper treatment can be reversed. People do not understand the strain this illness has on a family as a whole, not only does the child suffer, the entire family suffers. I hope people will look more into this illness and understand it's effect on everyone who touches that child's life. Here is a link to the website where I gained the majority of my information on this diagnosis when it was given to my son. The link is - myoutofcontrolteen.com/mr-RAD.html . this can open peoples eyes to the reality of this devastating illness ! Bill - Bauxite, Arkansas

russ72 - 5/12/2010 8:04 PM
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He is just trying to return to the Motherland

geb6706 - 5/12/2010 3:44 PM
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Thank God he is home safe. :)

Lorelei - 5/12/2010 3:44 PM
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Blay, Who is pointing the finger at the family? I think what has been said here is that there is some sort of PROBLEM when a 12 year old makes repeated attempts to run away or hide. No one is saying it is the adoptive parents fault it is simply a fact of the matter that there is something wrong. Windalinat, you say dont judge this family just help them...Help them what? What exactly is it that we are supposed to do? The media didnt give us, the public, much to go on and I am sure the family doesnt want the public "all up in their personal business". Glad the child has been found now he needs to get some help for whatever his problem is.

blay1955 - 5/12/2010 2:57 PM
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Need to make corrections in last statement: "reach", not each!! and Don't alwasy point a finger at the family and assume...
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